Archive for January, 2009

Just kidding.  I hate snow.  I am not a cold weather person.  And neither is my son….all these pictures may make it look like he loves it, but trust me, he is outside for 30 minutes max before I hear, “Let’s go inside and have hot chocolate“.  I think now he just goes out there because he thinks hot chocolate always comes after playing outside in the snow. 

And do you notice that you don’t see any snow angel pictures???  That is because he finally realized that you have to LAY DOWN on the ground in the cold snow to achieve this, and you should see the look he gives when you tell him that! 

Papaw Nick and Grandma Kathy came over Tuesday night to shovel our driveway – B helped of course!  Thank the Lord for my In-Laws and the Suburban, because Brayden begged to go outside all day, and there was no way I was venturing out on my own!

 

He FINALLY got to go out with his Daddy when Nate came home yesterday :)

Melt my heart…

In other news, Doc has scheduled us for an ultrasound on Monday.  Nothing is wrong, he just took one look at Brayden, one look at his measurements when he was born, another look at Brayden and the size of his head, and wrote out the script.  He just wants to keep track of how Nolan is growing, because God knows that NO ONE would have guessed that B was going to be a 9 lb baby with a toddler sized head at birth!  Cross all fingers that Nolan isn’t, AND that he doesn’t inherit that Rockenstein head!

Hopefully we will have some pictures of Nolan to share Monday night!!!

Max is 3 months!

January 27, 2009

Can you believe he is already 3 months old?  I feel like it was just yesterday I was visiting them at the hospital.  Katie took his 3 month pictures and she did a great job!

My absolute favorite!

 You can see all of Katie’s shots in her Picasa album

Of COURSE it snowed on Sunday, I paid good money to have my van washed on Saturday for the first time in ages!

And of COURSE it is going to snow tonight…Nate has been promised poor B for WEEKS that on the first day of a good snow he will take off work and stay home with him to make snow angels and throw snowballs – and Nate is out of town this week :(

Luckily, BB did get to shovel the driveway with Daddy on Sunday.  Nate wanted to sneak out and do it quickly, and then I heard B screaming for him out the window “Daddy, stop!  Wait for me!  Come back, I can help!”  I made Nate come to the door to see B standing there with sad eyes and one hand grasping his snow shovel.  A quick swap of shoes and some piling snow gear later, B was having the time of his life – just look at his face!

So….if you want a good laugh tomorrow, come on down to our neck of the woods to see this 9 month preggo mama plop her large arse on the really cold and wet ground to make a dreaded snow angel.  And for future reference - I am sorry BB,  for not being as fun as Daddy would have been :(

Officially Full Term!

January 26, 2009

Well, it is official, I am full term and Mr. Nolan is welcome to join the world as soon as he is ready :)   Hopefully not too soon, we are still hoping I get a couple weeks off work before his appearance.  Oh yea, and preferably when Nate gets back from Dallas :)   All is well in the Wolff household -1 this week (so far – ask me after bedtime tonight when Daddy isn’t here). 

And a BIG - HUGE - ENORMOUS Congrats to two very good friends of mine.  Both Bridget and Deana are preggo with #2!!!  We couldn’t be more happy for both of you!  Everyone think pink!!!  We need some girls in the playgroup!

 Pregnancy: 3rd Trimester

Week 35: Your pregnancy

Week 35: Your pregnancy

Your baby’s growth: Gaining fat

In week 35 the average baby weighs around 5 to 6 pounds and measures about 16 to 19 inches in length.

Your baby will begin to gain weight more rapidly than ever before…adding about ½ to ¾ pound each week from this point forward. Healthy fat is being deposited all over your baby’s body, especially around the shoulders.

Because of his size, your baby may move around less as her surroundings become more cramped. His head may be resting on your pubic bone in preparation for labor and delivery.

Other developments taking place this week:

  • Central nervous system will continue to mature.
  • Lungs. The lungs will most likely be fully developed by Week 35.
  • Activity. Your baby develops daily activity cycles. You may notice she is often more active at night, when you’re trying to rest.
  • Respiratory and digestive systems. Even though they won’t be considered full-term until the end of the 40th week, your baby’s respiratory and digestive systems are nearly mature.
  • Immune system starts to develop.
  • Umbilical cord. It’s now about 20 inches long and 1 to 2 centimeters in diameter. At birth it will be about 2 feet long and a ½ inch thick.

Vote for us!

January 21, 2009

I got this e-mail from Studio3Z today – VOTE FOR US!

Hello friends of studio3z photography!

You have received this email because a photo from your session with us in 2008 is up on our blog!  We are having a friendly competition, and people are voting on their favorites of the year!!  Feel free to go and vote yourself, and invite anyone to come and vote as well.  (All the rules are on the blog.)  Oh, and the winner….The winner gets to choose a FREE 8×10 from their session, on us.  :)  

We look forward to hearing from you!   http://www.studio3z.com/blog

All the best in 2009,

Jessica + Brett

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34 weeks

January 19, 2009

I just can’t catch a break, the sinus infection is back, and everytime I cough, I just feel so sorry for poor Nolan.  Other than that, all is well.  I am just getting really big and tired!  I started drawing and painting the nursery yesterday, so hopefully I will have pics to post of the boys “new” rooms this week!

 Pregnancy: 3rd Trimester

Week 34: Your pregnancy

Week 34: Your pregnancy

Your baby’s growth: No more floating

As of this week your baby has grown so large, he takes up most of the available space inside the uterus and can no longer float around your womb. Your baby is now about 4.7 pounds and about 16.8 inches long.

More developments this week:

  • Adrenal glands. Your baby’s adrenal glands grow and produce corticoid hormones. Together with prolactin from the pituitary, they will stimulate lactation.
  • Skin. The vernix coating on your baby’s skin grows thicker to better protect him. Your baby’s skin gradually becomes less red and wrinkled as the fat beneath it fills out and stretches the skin.
  • Skull. His skull bones are still quite pliable and not completely fused together at the top of his head. That will make it easy for him to slip down the relatively narrow birth canal.

Thanks to my 2 best friends in the whole world, I attended the most perfect “sprinkle” for baby Nolan yesterday.

It was held at the cutest little tea room on Main St. in Florence, Yesterdays.  We highly recommend it (and the almond cookie tea)!

Katie is becoming a pro at the diaper cakes :)   And Erin made the cutest cupcakes.

And introducing to the blog, Loren’s baby bump!

Thank you so much to everyone who came, it meant so much to me to celebrate our second little miracle!

I just received our gallery login info from Jessica at Studio3Z!  I can’t even begin to choose which ones I want to order.  I need to take a walk around the house and decide what sizes I want and where, and then sit down to try to make the grueling decision.

I am so glad we did this shoot, I only wish it were a little warmer – You can tell in most of the pictures that we were cold.  But these are definitely shots the the boys will treasure when they are older.

If you want to take a look – go to http://studio3z.instaproofs.com/

The password is Wolff and the e-mail address is heatherwolffphotography@gmail.com
 
If by chance you want to order any adorable pictures of B, e-mail me and let me know.  She has a special going on right now and all orders need to be e-mailed to her instead of submitted through the site!

Enjoy!  Let me know which ones are your favorites!

Happy Birthday Grayson!

January 14, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday Grayson!  B had a blast on Sunday at his party, so thanks to Deana for making it so special and memorable for the boys!  B is still talking about it.

Birthday Boy

I love the many faces of Grayson!

Deana and her Mother-in-law made these ADORABLE Wonder Pets capes for the boys!

All the boys eating their cupcakes and ice cream!

33 weeks

January 14, 2009

OK, I know our road to get to this point was a long and emotional rollercoaster, and I am so blessed and thankful to be a mom again.  So please, no one take offense to this, or think that I am a horrible or selfish person…

I am not one of those moms who loves to be pregnant.  I actually despise it.  I don’t do well with change in general, and when that change effects EVERY aspect of my life, I feel like everyday is an out of body experience.  I am ready to be me again.  And with all of that being said, I am crabby.  Therefore, from this point on, I will not be held responsible for any of my actions or anything that comes out of my mouth :)   Remember, out of body experience….not Heather.

Pregnancy: 3rd Trimester

Week 33: Your pregnancy

Week 33: Your pregnancy

Your baby’s growth: Using her senses

Your baby now weighs about 4.4 pounds and is about 16.4 inches long from head to toe. He’ll gain a good deal of his weight in the final few weeks before birth.

In these last few weeks billions of your baby’s brain cells are helping her to learn about her environment. These cells help him to listen, feel, and even see.

This is another important week for visual development. By now your baby may be able to experience her surroundings visually, since the pupils can now detect some light. Her pupils constrict and dilate to allow your baby to see dim shapes.

Other developments this week:

  • Head. Your baby’s head size will increase about 3/8 of an inch in circumference this week.
  • Sleep time. Your little one now sleeps much of the time.
  • Lungs are continuing to mature.
  • Weight gain. Fat will continue to be added on to your baby’s body for protection and warmth.
  • Testicles. For most boys, the testicles have now moved into the scrotum.

Favorite Baby Books

January 10, 2009

For those moms and dads to-be looking for some good reference books, here are our two favorites right now!

Natural Baby and Childcare by Dr. Lauren Feder

The Baby Book by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears

More Birth Stuff…

January 10, 2009

With about 8 weeks to go until the arrival of Nolan, I am starting to get both nervous and anxious.  Anxious because I feel like I am ready to meet him, and nervous about his birth.  Most of you know that I am attempting to have a natural birth with him, hopefully very different from my c-section and horrible recovery I experienced with Brayden.  This is VERY important to me, and lately, I don’t feel much support from the people around me except, of course, Nate and the wonderful Dr. Bowen.  I am sure it is just the hormones, but I have done hours and hours of research on this and feel that it will be best for us.  As I said before, I had a HORRIBLE recovery with Brayden.  There were days I couldn’t walk across the room because I was in so much pain, which was caused when the Doc attendant basically ripped B out of me :(   I then had horrible headaches and blackouts for many months, and to those I fault the epidural.  Don’t get me wrong, I will have some type of pain management during my labor with Nolan, but hopefully not an epidural.  We have also chosen our hospital, much to the dismay of many :(   We will be at Mercy Fairfield, which we feel is the best hospital in the area to accomodate our birthing wishes.

I ran across this report on evidence-based maternity care in the United States.  There are some scary c-section facts included that I would like to share:

Negative effects of c-section births on babies: 

When babies do not experience labor, they fail to benefit from changes that come with spontaneous labor; changes that  help to clear fluid from their lungs.

Because it’s almost impossible to 100% know a baby’s due date, and because often due dates are nothing more than an estimate, it’s easy to bring a baby into the world too soon with a cesarean. Research shows that increased preterm birth rates have been associated with increased numbers of cesarean births.

In comparison with vaginal birth, delivery by elective cesarean is consistently associated with increased risk of respiratory morbidity in near-term newborns and full-term newborns.

Women are more likely to experience the following short-term problems if they have a cesarean birth:

  • maternal death
  • emergency hysterectomy
  • blood clots and stroke
  • surgical injury
  • longer hospitalization and more likely rehospitalization
  • infection
  • poor birth experience
  • less early contact with babies
  • intense and prolonged postpartum pain
  • poor overall mental health and self-esteem
  • poor overall functioning

The report also notes that “Cesarean mothers were more likely to experience longer-term problems of chronic pelvic pain and bowel obstruction.

The report notes that cesarean born babies are more likely than vaginally born babies to experience:

  • respiratory problems
  • surgical injuries
  • failure to establish breastfeeding
  • asthma in childhood and adulthood

The report further looks into how cesarean birth can impact a woman’s future reproductive life. Some of these risks to women include a greater likelihood of…

  • involuntary infertility
  • reduced fertility due to decreased desire to have more children
  • cesarean scar ectopic pregnancy
  • placenta previa
  • placenta accreta
  • placental abruption
  • uterine rupture
  • hemorrhage
  • low birthweight in future babies
  • preterm birth for future babies
  • stillbirth of future babies
  • maternal death

“The likelihood of many of these conditions was found to increase as the number of previous cesareans increased (Childbirth Connection 2006; Sakala 2006b).”

Why this is news you need to know:

While some women do actually need and thus have necessary cesarean births, research continues to note that right now, unnecessary scheduled c-sections and unnecessary emergency c-sections are much more rampant than they should be. The World Health Organization (WHO) notes that no region in the world is justified in having a cesarean rate greater than 10 to 15 percent. Although WHO also states that 5% to 10% c-section rates correlate directly with the most healthy outcomes for mamas and babies, so even 15% is too high.

Right now, in the U.S. our cesarean rate is over 30%. That’s more than twice what it should be. With all the complications and risks to mothers and babies that are associated with c-sections, this news isn’t good. If you’re a mama expecting a baby make sure you research your care provider. His or her rate of performing cesarean births should be very low; the lower the better.

(full report)

So please, we are asking for your support at this time.  If you do not agree with us, that is of course ok, but please do not voice your concerns, nor negative birth stories to us. 

32 weeks? Or 34?

January 5, 2009

I always knew my timing was off from my Doc’s.  To make a long story short, I ovulate very late in my cycle, so normal calculations aren’t correct – probably the reason B was “late”.  He really wasn’t.

So anyway, Doc sent in paperwork to work today that says my due date is February 23rd!  Whoo Hoo!  That excites me because I get 2 weeks off work prior to my Doc’s estimated due date.  Let’s hope he is a March baby, that means 3 or more PAID weeks off for me!  But you never know, he could come early!

We have been battling horrible sinus infections in the Wolff household :(   I have felt like poo for the last week, and going back to work today wasn’t pleasant, especially on practically no sleep.  I broke down and took some meds, so hopefully they will kick in soon!

Pregnancy: 3rd Trimester

Week 32: Your pregnancy

Week 32: Your pregnancy

Your baby’s growth: Rapid changes

Your baby is now about 4 pounds—an incredible increase of almost 2 pounds from last month—and about 15.5 inches long.

Your baby’s appearance changes rapidly this week. Most of the wrinkles disappear from her face, and there may be a lot of hair on her head. In fact as the lanugo hair on her body begins to fall off, the hair on her head grows even faster. By week 32 some babies already have a thick head of hair while others have only a few strands.

Other developments this week:

  • Nails. Your baby will have completely formed fingernails and toenails.
  • Head movement. He can turn his head from side to side.
  • Organs continue to mature.
  • Sucking. Your little one’s sucking muscles have matured and enable her to latch on and breastfeed once she arrives. A good sucking pattern is also a sign of good brain and muscle development.
  • Dreaming. Toward the end of the eighth month, he begins dreaming during sleep, according to brain scans. Due to her impressive brain development, his sleep will now include both REM and non-REM sleep stages. REM stands for “rapid eye movement,” the dreaming stage of sleep.

Festival of Lights

January 3, 2009

Unfortunately, during Christmas when everyone is home, we are slaves to everyone else’s schedules. So the year we didn’t make it to the Zoo before Christmas :(   We tried to go on the Tuesday before New Year’s when it was warm, but we drove by and saw the line to get in and kept on driving!  We ended up going on New Year’s Day, and didn’t stay very long because B nor I are snowbunnies, and it was cold!  But we did get some cute pictures of us!

Better late than never!

January 3, 2009

Christmas Pictures!

Sorry they aren’t great, I didn’t feel well AT ALL Christmas morning, which became very apparent when I started praying to the porcelain gods around 11am :(   I must have eaten something that didn’t agree with me the night before, because Thank God no one else was sick to their stomach.  All three of us, however, have been battling a sinus infection for our entire vacation – I have never seen so much green snot in my life :(   I need a vacation from my vacation!

Besides the sickness, we had a wonderful Christmas, and it was so nice to spend it with EVERYONE in our family this year!

Spoiled much?

The manger that Nate built for his Mom

One of B’s favorite presents – his banjo from Mike and Cathleen

Next Year’s exchange theme? Retro.  Nick already has his present ready

See – I told you we didn’t feel well!  My diet on Christmas day consisted of half a bowl of chicken noodle soup at lunch, and some pasta with parmesan around dinner.  No Christmas goodies for me :(

The Wolff grandkids